Are you Living in a “Get” Mindset?
Anytime you hear yourself saying or feeling, “I’ve got to get …more investors, more clients, more money, more time”, know you are coming from lack. If you have to get something than you are not coming from already having it –you’re not being a match for having it. You’re being a match for not having it because you need to get it – signifying you don’t have it.
A little confusing? This is an important concept to “get”. 😊
In As A Man Thinketh, James Allen writes, “Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are.”
We need to be a match for the things we say we want. First we need to shift our mindset.
Where in your life have you been living with a “get” mindset?
To help you shift your mindset you want to be aware that 97% of people live in the Have – Do – Be mindset.
Most of us have been trained in struggle patterns – When I am successful I’ll do the things I want and then I’ll be happy.
When I am in the relationship I want I’ll go on dates, have a companion and then I’ll be happy.
When I have the approval of others, I’ll do what I think they want me to do and then I’ll feel confident.
There’s a different way to live life.
We want to live from a BE Do Have mindset.
Zig Ziglar said, “You’ve got to be before you can do, and do before you can have.”
The first step is to BE. Be the person who is living the life you’d love NOW, not when your vision has come into form. You can BE generous now, maybe on a smaller scale but you can feel what it would feel like to give to the causes that matter to you.
Being a certain way only takes changing our thinking about ourselves and our circumstances.
“For a man to achieve all that is demanded of him he must regard himself as greater than he is.”– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
DO – we must take action but we’re taking action while BEING the person who has achieved the results we want. That person has a certain level of confidence, different habits then we now have. They may think differently than we routinely do.
HAVE – Once we are in action as our future self, we can have different results. We can create the results we’d love.
What shifts in your thinking, feelings and actions do you need to take to start living from a Be Do Have mindset?
Cyn Hannah
Cyn Hannah, transformational life and business coach, teaches the formula for success that brought her from tragedy to triumph and can take you from a good life to a great life. Through her speaking and coaching she has helped thousands of people create quantum leaps in their results, both personally and professionally. Cyn has shared the stage with the likes of internationally acclaimed transformational teacher, Mary Morrissey and actress and wellness advocate, Mariel Hemingway. Cyn’s entrepreneurial spirit led her to numerous successful ventures prior to becoming a coach, including working in Hollywood as a television producer and being a member of the Directors Guild of America, owning a high-tech recruiting firm focusing on the Silicon Valley and selling real estate in the world-renowned ski resort of Sun Valley, Idaho. Her passion is empowering people to achieve tangible results so they can say, “I love my life!” Visit Cyn at: https://www.cynhannah.com
