Christmas, Hannukah, Festivus Motto
As we approach the end of a long holiday season, to truly celebrate, enjoy, savor the season, I’m suggesting a variation on an old acronym: KIST. Keep It Simple, Tomatoes!
The holiday season should – and can – be so much fun if we keep everything in perspective. I came across a piece I’d written years ago called The 55 Days of Christmas. Here are five of the recommendations for a relaxing holiday season – you can throw New Years Eve and Superbowl Sunday into the holiday mix:
You can pick and choose.
Go to every party, every event if that brings you joy. Only accept invitations that make you happy. If that means none, go for it! An unbreakable prior engagement is always a valid excuse. No one needs to know that the engagement may be with your couch.
Reconsider finding the perfect gift for everyone.
Just like Santa, make a list and check it twice. While you’re checking, do a little reality check. Are you buying gifts for too many people? Are you planning on spending an unrealistic amount on each? Have you burdened yourself with impossible-to-find items? Gift cards are a wonderful thing. Want to give the perfect gift? Not only are gift cards perfect, but you can fit them in your carry-on luggage.
Wear comfortable clothes. Always.
Don’t let tight shoes or a dubious neckline spoil your fun. Mix and match – I can think of at least one Tomato who always creates amazing combinations. Spruce up an old outfit with jewelry that makes a statement. Bold pieces set a festive tone.
Baking
Don’t bake unless you would go into a serious depression if deprived of the experience. If you do bake, set limits. I will never again fill more containers of cookies than can fit on a fully extended kitchen table. (Twelve varieties including iced sugar cookies)
- Self-Care
Block out time on your calendar to do absolutely nothing but take care of yourself – whether that means going to a movie, meditating, getting a massage, or just taking a nap. Simplicity is very classy. Repeat that twenty times, then start cutting back on your plans.
Happy, peaceful, joyful holidays to one and all!
Susan Meyer
Dr. Susan R. Meyer is an author, Executive Coach and Life Strategist with a passion for helping women use practical strategies, including Positive Intelligence™ skills, to get unstuck and create the life they deserve. Her program, Living for Today and Tomorrow, was recognized by the New York Times for its success. I'm Susan and I'm a Serial Careerist: Seven Success Strategies for a Unique Career Path was published by Three Tomatoes Publishing.
